HOW TO FIND THE PERFECT HUSBAND FOR MARRIAGE

To many ladies, the greatest challenge being faced now is not to land that well-paid job, neither is it to successfully graduate from the higher institutions with first class honors, but how to find the perfect husband. Evidently, there are too many aging single women roaming the streets of Africa especially Nigeria obviously in search of the man to marry. These women believe that men abound but husbands are few. Therefore, any attempt or display of interest from any well-packaged man is greeted with a huge welcome and unrestrained submissiveness.

Regrettably a lot of women have ended up in greater relationship mess than they ever envisaged as a result of falling for the wrong men who expressed the desire to relate with them. Ladies in this situation forgot that appearance is never reality. A good packaging is never an indication of inherent desired qualities. Misguided husband hunters apparently lose focus to start pursuing shadows instead of realities. They are mostly influenced by what they see and hear than what lay beneath those decietful show of wealth, comfort and handsomeness.

I came across some ladies who always loved to club and party and when I asked about their interest in settling down in marriage, they almost chorused "dont I know that real and successful men can also be found in parties and clubs?" They nearly convinced me that the best place to land a love and adventuruos relationship is the party or club zone. It may have worked for some people, but never give in to the fact that the only place to find reasonable men is the club and party zone.

LOVING TILL THE END

Just like there are rules in every game, there are tested and confirmed ways a woman can adopt which put her in the most advantageous position to find her dream husband. Although these prescribed ways may slightly differ due to differences in religions and customs, they are generally accepted norms which attract reasonable and successful men to single women.

In Nigeria for instance, real men seeking women to marry are easily attracted to physically beautiful women who are neither money nor fashion-conscious. A good academic record as well as a gainful employment would be an added advantage. Although these qualities are somewhat secondary, they are highly considered when it comes to taking any meaningful decisions towards marriage. Thus there is need for every Nigerian woman to devote time and resources in positive self development. There should be little or no room for frivolities which would never add real value to your womanhood and personality, because frivolous achievement would only attract frivolous men to you as a woman.

Primarily to enable a woman find a good husband, every woman must endeavor to be respectful and polite when dealing with any man irrespective of his looks. A woman should be patient with men, gentle but positively firm in taking decisions concerning a man's advances. She must prove to be a woman with an independent mindset - not easily induced nor influenced but intelligent enough to recognise when to be submissive.

Ladies should know that menare naturally proud and would always want to feel secured and honored. Any woman who observes and respects the pride of a man while making him feel secure would largely be loved and cherished by such a man.

Most importantly, every woman seeking a husband for marriage ought to be very prayerful. I do not mean to be religiously fanatical but to be moderately inclined to the dictates of God according to one's religion and belief. Most hopefully, the perfect husband would come knocking with the right intentions.

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