LADIES, DO YOU REALLY TRUST HIM? IS HE REALLY YOURS?

Ladies, today we shall talk about visible or obvious deceitful lifestyle or straightaway, let's call it infidelity from guys. It breaks my heart that some ladies are fully aware they are not their supposed guys' main chick yet, they insist on staying put in the relationship.

Some ladies also lie to themselves, forcing themselves to believe that their supposed men are truly theirs... when the truth is as bright as afternoon sunshine.

Girls are so terrified to loose that relationship status - "in a relationship", or "engaged", "taken". They are scared of such status impressions as "single again", or "complicated" or even "single".

My dear, what is wrong with that? The truth is that you don't need to browse your boyfriend's phone to determine whose guy he really is. If your love for him is real, factual, and not blind, it will make you see his real character and affinity in those little acts of his. Men could lie with actions, words, but little misplaced events of more or less no consequence give them away.

Men claim to be smart when they multi-date and sadly, ladies are falling head-over-heels for them. So sad indeed.

The little story below will make you ladies have a rethink.

A certain wife checked her husband's phone and found these names:

. Tender one 

. Amazing one 

. Lady of my dreams

She called the Tender One and his mother answered. Then called the Amazing One and his sister answered! When she called the Lady of my Dreams, HER phone rang!!! She cried until she got her eyes swollen because she doubted her husband, so she gave him her one month salary to make up for her sin.

When his mother learnt of the story, she sold her jewelry and gave her son the money.

The husband took the money and bought a gift for his girlfriend whose name was saved as "Emeka the Electrician...

This is a real life story but we had to change the names of the characters. It actually happened. Therefore ladies, get to know your boyfriend. Do not trust blindly but smartly.