SECRETS OF HOW TO MAKE YOUR EX DESIRE YOU AGAIN

Hello ladies and gentlemen, one established fact about every heart that has been in a relationship is the desire to make your EX want you back...at least to make your EX desire you again. Almost every adult has been in one form of relationship or another and out of every 3 persons, 2 persons have had broken relationships. Therefore it is only right that you are reading this post to find out how to make your EX-boyfriend or EX-girlfriend desire you again.

It does not matter whether you dumped him or he dumped you, it is very difficult to completely escape the hard feelings of a broken relationship. You might pretend it does not bother you...but as long as you truly felt something for him while the going was good, you are bound to get hurt as the relationship is no more.

This post lets you intro the secrets surrounding the magical ways you could make your EX come rushing back to you.

Ok...let us say you just called the relationship off. Right now he feels like he is the champion. He acts like he does not want to see you again. He puts up cheerful faces, making you believe life is now better off without you. Listen girl, all he is doing is trying to make you hunger for him again and possibly wishing that you come crawling on his toes, begging to be accepted again.

The truth is - deep inside of him, he still desires you but is praying for the green signs to make his move without loosing his manly ego. Cash in on this trick as you learn to make your Ex-boyfriend desire you and come rushing back to you again.

DISTANCE FROM YOUR EX

The very first and most effective approach in making your Ex miss you again is to cut off every form of contact or connection with him. Do not delete his contact but hide it from your sight. Even on the social media, find a way to disable his posts from appearing on your wall directly or indirectly but do not bother deleting him from your friends' list. This stage of unbroken silence may last as long as it is necessary.

POSITION YOURSELF FOR SUCCESS

Now this is the time to live your life to the fullest. Level up every valley or hills in your world of emotions and put on that smiling face that tells the world it is even better now. Attend to your work, school curriculum, keep yourself busy and engage in healthy social activities that would make your life colorful. In case he accidentally spots you anywhere, his mind would miss a beat.

IDENTIFY YOUR PAST WEAKNESSES

During this stage of "No Contact", reappraise your life. Search inwardly to discover your areas of weaknesses in relationships. Being able to discover your weaknesses is the signpost to discovering your true strength which will help you in any future relationships. Make amends and you are ready to forge ahead.

REVIEW YOUR PRESENT

Now girl, have you been able to highlight your past weaknesses? Maybe you were too emotional in all things. Maybe you were too sensitive to his feelings and he took advantage of that to always make you compromise your standards and hurt you. 

I believe you have realized and made amends...now is the time to reassess your present situation. Try to imagine your present single condition and relate them with other social, economic, spiritual, psychological factors within you. Are they all in turn or do you need to adjust a little. The point here is that there is need to strike a balance between all those fore-mentioned factors by adjusting accordingly. You will surely come out a more balanced person after this self-assessment.

Sometimes, love affairs and relationship could be a bondage. It will deter you from finding spare time - a time to be selfish enough to think about yourself alone. But I bet you, those selfish private moments are worth it if you must grow in your personal love life and relationship skills.

PLAN FOR YOUR FUTURE

Having assessed your personal status and decided on the way forward, it is time to begin to plan for a future independent of any other person. Any man would respect a woman who exhibits a mind of independence. A man would love and respect you more if you could prove that you can stand or survive without him noe his resources. If he adds to what you have, acknowledge and take it as a compliment. Do not forget that all these are happening while still in the "No Contact" stage of making your Ex desire you again.

WORK OUT, LOOK SMARTER & MORE BEAUTIFUL AND ALWAYS BE CHEERFUL

You may also add some physical looks upgrade to your therapy. A periodic workout, modest facial makeups, smart looks will definitely send a radiating signal that you are on top of the situation. Believe it or not, your proud EX is keeping a tab on you and is noticing these developments from a distance. Keep up the good works for it is about to pay off.

SIGNS YOUR EX WANTS YOU BACK - EXPRESSIONS OF YOUR MUTUAL FRIENDS

Then when you begin to see the mutual friends of your EX begin to ask you about him, know it that he is beginning to ask how he may break the jinx and make up with you. For fear of being rejected or losing face, he is most likely to adopt the most indirect approach possible.

In all these signs, pretend you do not even notice anything. Make him come out of his shells by being polite, friendly and yielding to any remarks about him or from him. Making him understand that even though he messed up, you are too mature to keep malice. Make him realize that as long as he has learnt his lessons and realised his mistakes, you are mature enough to forgive him and maybe make up with him.

However, do not be quick to fall into his arms and begin to kiss him. Remember you are now a tough girl...there remain tough in all your dealings with him and you would not onluy make him miss you more, but also remain in charge henceforth.