TYING A WOMAN DOWN IN THE NAME OF ENGAGEMENT; ADVICE TO LADIES

Hello ladies, are you engaged to a man? How long has your engagement lasted? Are you seeing any serious signs in your man concerning settling down with you? Does your man engage in sexual intercourse with you even as your engagement to him is taking too long?

These are critical questions and many more you need to ask yourself as a lady who had been engaged over a long period of time. It is not healthy to be engaged yet, there are no signs the relationship is going to the next level.

Ladies must be made to know that some mischievous men tie some ladies to themselves - with full benefits obtainable in a love affair, with the promise of marriage. To seal their plans, some men go the extra mile to engage their ladies with a ring. Some men even go as far as visiting the parents of their woman lover or fiancee in order to convince the lady to stick to him. However most ladies are the architect of this kind of problem they have found themselves in.

HOW LADIES CONTRIBUTE IN TYING THEMSELVES DOWN IN THE NAME OF ENGAGEMENT

Sadly, most ladies are blind when dating men. They are so blinded with feelings of love and affection that they fail to read the handwriting on the wall. Ladies even go as far as defending their men for the latter's lapses. "After all he is going to be my husband"...that's what they would always say.

Hey ladies, any active engagement that has lasted more than one year needs to be questioned or reviewed. To you, one year might be too long. However this single year of dating offers every opportunity for the man to proove himself and define his marital future. Otherwise, no man should tie any woman to himself under the guise of pre-marital engagement.

Be wise ladies. Unfortunately, most ladies celebrate engagement more than they celebrate actual marriage. they are so keen to show off that engagement ring to prove to their friends that they have arrived - they have done what Napoleon could not do. But at the end, regret is theirs.

THE BOUNDARIES OF YOUR MAN DURING DATING, RELATIONSHIP OR ENGAGEMENT

Guys these days are very smart. Ladies, rise up to the challenge and get real. Open your eyes when dating any man and get to know his plans - I mean in the most respective and straightforward manner. Let me remind you lassies that unless you are married to him, the man has no business exploring you sexually.

Unless he is married to you dear, he has limited boundaries over you. Ladies you need to develop an independent mindset. Stand strong, develop your own world and be courageous. these attitudes will make your man love and respect you more.

However, ladies, do not wish to be a liability to your man just because he has asked you to marry him. rather, help him to achieve his dreams...that is where to begin to check compatibility. The ability of both of you to work out solutions to all your lifes' challenges makes the both of you a couple.