12 SURE SIGNS HE IS FALLING FOR YOU (LADIES SECRETS)

Hi beautiful ladies, today you will learn those signs that show your boyfriend or...that guy is surely falling for you. Guys especially Nigerian guys are naturally egoistic. They may feel something for a lady but not being sure of what response they shall get from the lady would definitely make them not to come straight and speak their mind. However, they may lie with straight words...but body language and gestures give it all up.

Guys are good at indirectly selling out their emotions popularly known as "green lights" to their loved ladies. Hey this green light phenomenon are also seen in ladies. In fact it is more common in girls who feel they have fallen for some guy and are determined to have him. However for the scope of this post, we shall discuss the Green Light Signs from a guy that shows he is falling for you - young lady.

HE SPENDS LONG TIME TALKING TO YOU

Perhaps this is the most visible sign which shows a guy is interested in you. Even though the issues discussed may not be important or ridiculous, it gives him pleasure to always speak to you and hear you talk to him. When he finds every opportunity to talk to you, watch it...he has developed affection for you. You can be sure he has fallen for you.

HE BEGINS TO USE SPECIAL AND RESERVED NAMES ON YOU

Please do not see it as an embarrassment. He can not help it. He is either falling for you or in love with you already. Names such as darling, sweet or my color may be used rampantly and even without any genuine feelings. However, it will surprise you when he coins out a name that surely sends a message which you alone can understand as he may be genuinely interested in you..

THAT STRANGE FEELING OF CONNECTION, BODY CHEMISTRY CHANGES AT THE SIGHT OF HIM

This happens more with you - the subject of the advances, when you become conscious of a guy falling for you. It is true that at first, you may not welcome his advances. In some cases, the sight of him may begin to irritate you. What is really happening is that your emotions are reacting to the confirmation of the fact that he has developed love for you and will stop at nothing to stop until he receives a YES. At this stage of love advances, your body chemistry as a woman comes with mixed feelings - especially if the guy is good looking and prospective.

One moment, it is okay for him to come close, and another, it is not. However after a time of reflex interactions, your body chemistry adjusts to either a complete acceptance or a total rejection of his affections or love requests.

THINGS BEGIN TO REMIND YOU OF HIM

Yes it is true. Because of the noticed changes in his gestures and love advances which indicates he is falling for you and how queer your body reacts to it, a lot of things around you may gradually begin to remind you of him. It may be music, pictures, spoken words, quiet moments, other facial resemblances etc. But mind you, when things like this begin to happen, it is an indication that he is succeeding to creep into your heart. But is nice...isn't it?

DURING CONVERSATIONS, HE QUOTES BACK EXACT THINGS YOU SAID LONG TIME AGO

He is able to recall your exact words because his sub-conscious thinks more about you than anything or anyone else. Of course, the law of auto-suggestion states that the more time you spend on something, the more it becomes yours. Every man would always want to impress a lady he has fallen in love with. Therefore it is only natural he is able to remember your every word and action, with a view to complementing them when the need arises.

WHEN YOU OFTEN CATCH HIM STARING AT YOU FROM A DISTANCE LIKE YOU ALONE EXIST

When he easily spots you out from the crowd and keeps staring at you and all of a sudden, you cast a glance at him to catch him doing so. It could be really embarrassing but honestly he thinks you are special. An angel amidst a crowd of women. Occasionally he loses concentration at the sight of you and is eternally lost in never ending glances at you. I can only say that such a man has seriously fallen for you.

WHEN HE LIKES REACHING FOR YOUR HAND, HOLDING HANDS WITH YOU EVEN IN PUBLIC

May be you both are friends and you begin to notice that while walking along or in public, he loves to reach out and hold you by the hand. I think he wishes to let the world know that it is just the both of you. He is proud to tell the world that he is in love with you.

WHEN HE CALLS YOU ON PHONE VERY OFTEN FOR NO SERIOUS REASON

Many guys are good at this - either as a serious feeling of love and affection or a ploy to make her believe in him for easier access to her privacy. Therefore ladies need to be more smart on this. Unfortunately most ladies love attention from the opposite sex. It is now their second natural desire. However in as much as signs of love could be detected by this gesture, it must not be used as a yardstick to believe that he genuinely loves you.

WHEN HE LOSES HIS PHONE YET KNOWS YOUR NUMBER DIGITS OFF BY HEART

This is one big sign a guy has fallen for you. Everything about you becomes special to him. Your phone number is one major means of reach you anytime. Therefore if he is truly in love with you, his brains would automatically memorize your phone number digits so as not to have any issues locating your contact number to get at you.

HE OPENS DOORS FOR YOU, ACTS THE OLD SCHOOL GENTLEMAN

Of course, your comfort becomes his priority. Whenever he is around you, he acts the "Mr Nice Guy", opens doors for you, asks when you ate last, what you would like to eat, do you need anything etc. He is only using the gentleman style to woo your heart. He is in love - he has fallen for you.

HE BEGINS TO WITHDRAW FROM FELLOW GUYS, HANGOUTS JUST TO SPEND MORE TIME WITH YOU

It is a wrong believe that a real man is one that has huge flock of guys around him. They are always seen in public places drinking, gisting, hanging out and doing their usual guy thing. Some men even believe that as far as closeness with his fellow men are concern, it is a no-go area for women in their lives.

A seriously love struck man would willingly relinquish his cherished moments with fellow guys just to be with his girl. He is most delighted to discuss their weekend plans together. He begins to be seen more with you than with any other. If he derives real pleasure, joy, comfort and fulfillment spending time with you, then he has arrived. He has truly fallen for you. Therefore ladies, try to find out if spending quality time with him gives him the biggest pleasure - I didn't mean in a sexual way remember?

HE HAS FALLEN FOR YOU IF HE REGULARLY SMILES AT YOU, OBSERVES EVEN YOUR LITTLE GESTURES

Love and feelings of affection plays out more in our actions and reactions. Did you notice that he smiles often whenever your glances meet each other? He uses his facial expressions to reassure you that you mean the world to him. Smiles could be an effective way to send a deep message of "you are safe with me and all is well with us". Smiles are used to convey strong feelings especially when the issue being discussed is not really humorous to launch at. When he has fallen for you, he would always be full of smiles anytime both look at each other.

Human behavior is inexhaustible. The way and manner guys express their feelings especially when they had fallen in love may be more complex than what have been listed above. After all some guys may want to use authority and commands to let the girl know how much he cares. In some cases girls are compelled to accept a guy's love advances especially when intimidation and and force is employed. Ladies please run away from any guy who tries to control your life and leave you with no choice than to begin to love him..

No lady should sacrifice her freewill and freedom of choice on the alter of winning a man's heart. Love is a choice and needs to develop naturally. Therefore, if a man claims to have fallen for you, let him do the appropriate needful to win your heart.